Read in 2 mins Leader Resources » Teacher Tips » Nursery Tips Print / Download Article Facebook Twitter Pinterest Email Nursery Discipline Issues: Dealing With a Biting Child One toddler behavior that causes consternation in the nursery is biting! First, there’s trauma to the child who feels the instant pain and indignation, then there’s her parent who may express even stronger feelings. Temporary “biters” are likely to be second or later children in their families where they’ve found that biting is a weapon that works against older siblings. They may’ve experienced some upheaval at home, such as a new baby or a move. Nursery Discipline Issues: Dealing With a Biting Child A biting policy helps minimize the “ouchy” traumas to children, parents, and caregivers. Follow this procedure when a bite occurs: 1. Comfort and treat the injured child. Wash the area with warm water. Look for broken skin. If the skin is broken, page the child’s parents, and let them decide if they need to consult their family doctor. If there’s a red mark and the child will tolerate it, hold a small cold compress on the spot while reading a book to or rocking the child. Don’t overreact. As soon as the child is comforted, give her a hug and encourage her to get a toy and play. 2. Talk to the biting child. Have another volunteer take the biter aside, get at eye-level, and talk quietly. Set him in a child-sized “time out” chair or other acceptable “isolation spot” for a very short time. 3. Write two incident reports. One is for the parents of the injured child, and it details what was done to treat and comfort the child. It doesn’t name the biter. The other one is for the parents of the biter, and it states the circumstances of the biting incident and what was done as discipline. It does name the child who was bitten. This allows that parent to approach the injured child’s parent. Give a copy of the incident report to nursery leadership so they’ll know who was involved. 4. If at first you don’t succeed… If the same child does it again, repeat the procedure with two additional steps: Have the nursery coordinator talk with the parents and ask for their cooperation in changing the behavior. Place a small, discreet sign on the wall that names the repeat biter. Have volunteers watch this child carefully to intercept an attempt. The child may bite again, and the procedure remains the same. Lengthen the time-out, and leadership must continue to work with the parents. As soon as the biting pattern breaks, remove the sign. Looking for more nursery ideas? Check out these posts! And for even more ideas and daily posts of inspiration, follow us on Facebook! © Group Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No unauthorized use or duplication permitted. Get our FREE enewsletter! Join thousands of other children’s ministry leaders, getting fresh, helpful ideas delivered weekly to your inbox. Sign Up Please enter valid email address Sign Up Recieve offers and promos from Group? Got it! Would you also like offers and promos from Group? Yes! No Thanks, you're all set!