Preteen Children’s Message: Busting Putdowns and Hurtful Words
This preteen children’s message is a simple balloon trick that increases preteens’ sensitivity to the consequences of hurtful words.
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Preteen Children’s Message: Busting Putdowns and Hurtful Words
Inflate one balloon (“Balloon Bill”) and draw a comical face on it, then let the air out. Inflate the second balloon (“Latex Larry”), draw another comical face, and tie it off.
Inflate the deflated balloon and pinch it off to keep it inflated. Then invite kids to talk about Balloon Bill. Each time kids say something negative, allow a bit of air to seep out of Bill until all his air is gone. Next, concealing the needle, pick up Latex Larry and invite kids to describe him. This time, though, as soon as someone says the first negative word, pop the balloon.
Say: Sometimes negative words slowly tear down people’s self-esteem until they are completely deflated and feel very bad. We can build those people back up, but it takes positive words and genuine care—things we can give to all people. Sometimes, though, one mean word can hurt a person instantly.
Read aloud Ephesians 4:29.
Ask:
- What are some examples of words that are “good,” “helpful,” and encouraging “to those who hear them.”
- How can we use our words to build up others?
Challenge kids to think of one person at school or in their neighborhood who could use positive words, and have them focus on building up that person during the week. Ask for reports the next week.
Alan Hines
Words can hurt leaders, too. If you’ve felt hurt by criticism in your ministry, check out “6 Ways To Handle Criticism As a Pastor in a Small Church.” And if you’re looking for more great children’s messages, check out these posts!
