Read in 2 mins Leader Resources » Ministry Basics » Classroom Management » Teacher Tips » Elementary Tips » Preschool Tips » Preteen Tips Print / Download Article Facebook Twitter Pinterest Email Discipline Q & A: Handling Silly Answers From the Class Clown Published: August 18, 2023 Is your lesson often derailed by a child who always gives a silly answer to make other kids laugh? Here’s some age-specific advice to help. Q: What do I do about a child who always gives silly answers to make the other kids laugh? Preschool Expert “With preschoolers, saying something like ‘You’re so silly’ may give the child enough of the attention he or she wants and allow you to move on without having to reprimand the child. If silliness continues, clearly state that silly time is over, and give a couple of simple directives to reset behavior, such as having kids take a deep breath, wiggle their fingers, or touch their noses. Keep in mind that preschoolers have an extremely short attention span. If silliness steals too much group time, it may be better to just move on to the next activity. Keep things moving and fun, and you may squelch any silliness in the first place.” Rebecca Barnes has 15 years of kids ministry experience as a teacher and curriculum director in Colorado. Elementary Expert “Don’t take yourself too seriously with elementary kids. This behavior can be frustrating when you’re trying to create a spiritual moment, but losing your cool won’t bring about your desired outcome either. Acknowledge the silly answer. You might even laugh at it to show the child he or she is heard. Then ask, ‘If you were to answer the question seriously…’ You might also anticipate silliness by playfully asking the child, ‘You probably have a unique answer…’ Remember your goal is to get kids involved in discussion. For some, that begins with some silliness. By treating the silly answer as part of the discussion rather than squashing it, we maintain trust and relationship with kids.” Henry Zonio has over 25 years of experience as a children’s ministry leader in the U.S. and Canada. He is a sociologist with expertise in child development, religious education, and social inequalities. Preteen Expert “It’s not uncommon for preteens to try to get attention by making other kids laugh. While you want to maintain some order, you also want to acknowledge that each preteen comes in with unique needs. If you look past the silly behavior and find that a preteen might be looking for attention, you can find a positive way to respond to the silliness. Let the preteen know it isn’t the time to be silly, and then look for ways for him or her to get attention in positive ways. You might even ask preteens to come up with some of their own review questions or provide a time for kids to make up silly questions and answers.” Annette Safstrom has over 20 years of children’s ministry experience. She’s a children’s ministry coach, consultant with Ministry Architects, and the co-author of Sustainable Children’s Ministry. Check out this article for answers to common discipline questions. Looking for more teaching tips? Check out these ideas! © Group Publishing, Inc. All rights reserved. No unauthorized use or duplication permitted. Get our FREE enewsletter! Join thousands of other children’s ministry leaders, getting fresh, helpful ideas delivered weekly to your inbox. Sign Up Please enter valid email address Sign Up Recieve offers and promos from Group? Got it! Would you also like offers and promos from Group? Yes! No Thanks, you're all set!