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Personal Time With God

Professional ministry can be draining and ministry
leaders often let their own time with God slip through the cracks.
Here’s a guide for spending a few hours alone with

It’s time to kick back and do nothing but be renewed. Schedule a
few hours for just you and God.

Location is key. Get away to a park or someplace where you can
totally unwind. If you must stay in a familiar surrounding, such as
your home, thoroughly isolate yourself. Unplug the phone and
television; make arrangements for the kids and don’t let the
doorbell interrupt you.

Pack a healthy snack, such as a water bottle, fruit, and nuts.
Take this article, a Bible, a pen, and a notepad. Blessed are those
who plan to take a walk for part of their retreat! Wear loose
clothing and good support shoes. Prepare yourself on the way to
your retreat site by listening to praise music.

The Retreat

The Apostle Paul challenges us to follow his example as he
follows the example of Christ. The purpose of this personal
spiritual retreat is to help you follow Christ’s example of getting
away for rest and renewal. Christ knew he needed to get away from
it all now and then to be able to withstand the pressures and
stress of ongoing ministry. The four areas of your life that this
retreat will focus on are mental, physical, social, and

Mental — Although Jesus was fully God, he was
also fully human. We forget that Jesus often learned the same way
we do-by reading, observing, and interacting with people. In John 15:15, Jesus explains to his disciples:
“for everything that I learned from the Father I have made known to
you.” Jesus admits that God regularly taught him.

Dive into a little R and R-not just Rest and Relaxation-but
Reflection and Reaction. If it helps, take a walk. Meditate on the

  1. What have you recently learned from God? What new insights can
    you praise God for in your life?
  2. Read Philippians 4:8. Think about each word in this
    verse. For each word, think of things in your life that would fit
    that category. Enjoy having your mind crammed with good
  3. Sing praise songs to God. Or write a poem or letter of
    thanksgiving to God.
  4. Jot down one way to mentally recharge yourself-on a regular
    basis-that you can do when you get back to your daily routine; for
    example, you may read a book, take a class, or listen to tapes in
    your car.

Physical — Like us, Jesus experienced every
physiological need. For instance, once he was so exhausted that he
slept soundly in a small boat at sea during a violent storm. In
contrast to the pictures of Jesus we often see, his human body
didn’t come equipped with a halo!

  1. Read Mark 6:30-32. How are you getting the
    necessary rest you need-the same “rest” Jesus required of the
    apostles? How can you plan to get this rest daily? Brainstorm ideas
    for weekly, monthly, and annual getaways with your family, a good
    friend, or by yourself.
  2. Read 1 Corinthians 6:19-20. What does it mean that
    your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit? What things in your life
    would make the Holy Spirit uncomfortable to live within you? What
    can you do to change those things?
  3. Eat the snack you prepared. With each bite, praise the Lord for
    food. Thank God for your health and physical strength. Sense God’s
    presence within you!

Social — Jesus enjoyed getting away from the
crowds, but he also enjoyed a good party. Jesus went to banquets,
weddings, parties, and more. He was even condemned for how much fun
he liked to have-as though fun is unholy!

  1. Read John 2:1-12. What social gatherings do you
    attend? How often in the last few months have you been too busy to
    do anything except children’s ministry? How do you connect with
    friends on a regular basis?
  2. Jesus traveled with a cadre of people. Who are the people on
    your ministry team? Who’s on your support team-people who pray for
    and encourage you? Thank God for these individuals by name. How can
    you strengthen your relationship with these people? If you don’t
    have a team, who are people you could ask to join you?
  3. Identify one or two people from your team and plan to have
    lunch with these people this week. Let them know how important they
    are to you.

Spiritual — In Luke 2:52, we see the big picture of Jesus’
growth: “And Jesus kept increasing in wisdom and stature, and in
favor with God and men.” From childhood, Jesus kept growing in his
relationship with God the Father. Jesus spent tons of quality time
in prayer, conversing with God and seeking him.

  1. Read Psalm 91. Focus on God. Meditate on the ways
    that he has been at work in your life, your family, and your
    ministry. Thank God for the ways he has guided you, protected you,
    and walked with you through the good and bad times in the last few
  2. Read Mark 9:14-29. What are your current question
    marks of faith? List each question or doubt. Be honest before God.
    Seek God’s wisdom for your struggles. Note anyone God may bring to
    mind for you to get advice from later.
  3. Read Philippians 2:1-18. After each verse, ask the
    Holy Spirit to help you evaluate whether these characteristics are
    true of you or not. If not, ask God to build these things into your
  4. Read Philippians 4:4. What recent times of joy in
    the Lord can you recall? Thank God for these times. How has this
    joy caused you to grow spiritually? What things rob you of joy? How
    can you rejoice in the Lord always?
  5. Thank God for meeting with you today. Plan a date and time for
    your next retreat.

Ron Habermas is a professor of biblical studies in Arkansas.
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    Imam totally inspired.

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