You’re probably familiar with the classic Christmas carol “The
Twelve Days of Christmas.” In it, a true love gives a gift every
day for 12 days-from a partridge in a pear tree on the first day to
12 drummers drumming on the very last. In the spirit of that song,
we’re giving you 12 amazing ideas you can use or share with
families to help them prepare their hearts for Christmas. Try one,
or try them all. They’re our gift to you-out of true love!
1 PICTURE FRAME TO BRING GOD PRAISE
What You’ll Need Christmas decorations, a digital camera, card
stock, tape, stickers, scissors, clear vinyl adhesive, markers,
dry-erase markers, adhesive-backed magnets (available at craft
stores), and a frame
What You’ll Do This idea is easy to pull off if your church
decorates for Christmas. Set up a photo booth in front of your
Christmas decorations and have families pose for a photo. If
possible, set up a printing station so families can get their
pictures right away.
Then direct families to a craft station where they’ll follow
1. Create an 8×10-inch frame out of the card stock.
2. Decorate the frame with a Christmas theme. At the top write,
“Glory to God.”
3. Attach your family photo in the center of the frame.
4. Cover the frame in clear vinyl adhesive, turning the frame into
a dry-erase surface with the picture in the center.
5. Attach an adhesive-backed magnet to the back of the
6. Write praises to God with dry-erase markers-and keep adding to
and changing the praises at home.
2 MATCHING ITEMS
What You’ll Need a Bible, multiple sets of pictures of things that
go together, such as a pencil and an eraser, a coffee pot and mug,
a checker board and checkers, or a baseball bat and ball
What You’ll Do Play this game to kick off your Christmas
celebrations with families. Hand a picture to each family. Then
have them hunt for the family with the corresponding item. When
families have found their match, have partnering families sit
together and discuss why their items complement one another.
Then read the following pairs of Scripture: Isaiah 7:14 and
Matthew 1:26-38; Micah 5:2 and Matthew 2:1. Have families discuss
how the pairs of Scripture complement one another-and why it’s
significant that God knew the details of Jesus’ birth long before
3 GIFTS FOR JESUS
What You’ll Need a Christmas tree, costume jewelry, a scented
candle, a tube of lotion, paper clips, and the “Gifts for Jesus” handout
for each family.
What You’ll Do Set up a small Christmas tree in your children’s
ministry area, and arrange some costume jewelry, a scented candle,
and a tube of lotion underneath the tree. Fold the directions into
small pieces you can hang on the tree with paper clips. Encourage
families to take home a handout and follow the directions to create
their own display of gifts for Jesus.
Gifts for Jesus
Offer gifts to Jesus with your family to remember the gifts of the
1. Read Matthew 2:2. Say: The wise men gave baby Jesus gold to
show that he is a king. Find something fancy like a gold-colored
picture frame or a fashionable piece of costume jewelry, and place
it under your Christmas tree as you take turns naming things you
love about Jesus.
2. Read Revelation 5:8. Say: The wise men presented baby Jesus
with frankincense, a spice used when people worshipped God. Set an
unlit candle or other fragrant item under your tree, and take turns
offering prayers as a gift to Jesus.
3. Read John 19:39-40. Say: The wise men brought myrrh, an
ointment people put on bodies that were going to be buried. Set out
lotion or perfume as you thank Jesus for dying for your sins.
4 WEEKLY MAILINGS
What You’ll Need email or mailing addresses for families
What You’ll Do Help families mark the four weeks of Advent by
sending mailings that focus on the traditional theme associated
with each candle on the Advent wreath. These mailings, brief enough
to fit on a postcard, will remind families that Jesus, the Light of
the world, is coming soon. Find customizable content for these
weekly mailings here.
5 GOLDEN STARS
What You’ll Need For each family: a “Five Golden Stars” devotional
kit that includes four small star stickers, one large star sticker,
and the “Five Golden
What You’ll Do Give each family a “Five Golden Stars” devotional
kit to lead their family in this experience at home.
Five Golden Stars
Follow these instructions to lead your family in celebrating
1. Get four pieces of clean trash, such as crumpled, unused
tissues. Hide them around the house in somewhat obvious locations,
and then place a small star sticker in plain view just above the
hiding place of each item.
2. Get a better item, such as a plate of cookies, and hide it very
well. Place the large star sticker above it, but make sure the
sticker isn’t easy to see.
3. Tell your family you’re sending them on a treasure hunt as they
let the stars guide them to look for hidden treasure. Walk with
your family as they search, and let them know when they’ve found
all the stars.
4. Ask: How did the treasure under the big star compare with the
other treasures? How does the treasure of Jesus compare with other
things about Christmas? What things can distract us from looking
5. Say: Jesus is the greatest Christmas treasure of all. He’s the
very reason we celebrate! This Christmas, remember to look for
Jesus. Enjoy the tasty treat together as a family.
6 WAYS TO SERVE
What You’ll Need a list of homebound church members (optional)
What You’ll Do Challenge your families to spread Christmas cheer
around your community by delivering traditional Christmas goodies.
Provide a list of homebound church members, or challenge families
to select six people in their neighborhood. Have families deliver
each household a paper bag of hard candies, oranges, and apples,
and linger to chat for a couple minutes or sing to the
If possible, schedule deliveries for December 6, known in many
countries as St. Nicholas Day. Tell kids in your ministry about the
true St. Nicholas (find it at stnicholascenter.org), and read James
1:17-18 to emphasize that Jesus is the source of all good
7 KINDS OF SNACKS
What You’ll Need For each family: a kit containing four large
pretzel rods, two graham crackers, one Hershey Treasure candy, one
Tootsie Roll candy, two pretzel sticks, one marshmallow, five
animal crackers, and the “Nativity Snack”
Create this recipe with your family to better understand why Jesus
is the reason for the season. (In addition to the contents of this
kit, you’ll need wax paper and a can of frosting.)
Without using the frosting or any other supplies, encourage your
family to try to build a barn using the four pretzel rods as posts
and the two graham crackers as a roof.
Lay out wax paper and spread frosting on it. Stick the pretzel
rods in vertically, making sure there’s enough frosting around them
to secure them in place. Use frosting to glue the graham cracker
roof on the pretzel rods.
Set up a nativity scene inside the barn, using the Hershey
Treasure as a manger. Use frosting to secure the Tootsie Roll on
the manger as baby Jesus. Place the two pretzel sticks (Mary and
Joseph), the marshmallow sheep, and the other animals (animal
crackers) in the frosting base, using extra frosting as needed.
Ask: Why was the frosting so important to this snack? Why is
Jesus important to our lives?
Say: Just as we needed the frosting for our snack, we need Jesus
to hold our lives together. He came at Christmas to be born for us
and live for us. At Easter, he died on the cross because he wants
to have a forever friendship with us in heaven. Now that’s a reason
Enjoy your nativity snack together.
8 SUPERNATURAL STORIES
What You’ll Need a Bible
What You’ll Do When families are together for a Christmas event
at your church, assign each family one of the following eight
supernatural dreams or angelic visits. Then have each family work
together to create a comic strip of the event. Have families share
their work with everyone after they finish.
The supernatural stories: Matthew 1:18-21, Matthew 2:7-12,
Matthew 2:13-14, Matthew 2:19-21, Matthew 2:22-23, Luke 1: 5-7,
11-19, Luke 1:26-38, and Luke 2:8-11
9 CHRISTMAS TRADITIONS
What You’ll Need For each family: a kit with a round ornament and
Around the World” handout, which includes traditions from
India, Bethlehem, Brazil, Mexico, Ireland, Britain, China, France,
CHRISTMAS AROUND THE WORLD
In addition to the items provided, you’ll need green paint, blue
paint, and paintbrushes.
Have your family name any Christmas traditions you practice.
Then read the traditions (on the downloadable handout) to learn
what people in other areas of the world do. Talk about why you
think each tradition helps focus on Jesus-or distracts from
Paint your ornament to look like a globe. After it dries, hang
it on your tree and pray for the people in each country you learned
10 LISTED ITEMS
What You’ll Need a Bible, paper, pencils, and a list of top-10
baby names (available at ssa.gov)
What You’ll Do At your Christmas celebration with families,
share the list of baby names. Have families discuss what names they
considered for their children when they were born. Then lead
families in making a top-10 list of names for Jesus, having
families search in these verses: Isaiah 9:6; Luke 2:11; John 1:14;
John 1:29; John 6:35; John 10:11. Encourage families to call out
additional names they’ve heard for Jesus.
Say: Jesus has so many names. One thing we know is that he is
our Savior, and he was born at Christmas to be Immanuel-God with
Bonus! Turn your game into a service project. Brainstorm 10
items newborns need. Then encourage families to bring those items
in for a ministry donation to a women’s shelter or pregnancy care
11 CENSUS QUESTIONS
What You’ll Need an online “Census Questions” survey.
What You’ll Do Give families a “Census Questions” list to use at
home. Use surveymonkey.com to create a free census of your own,
using these questions.
This is a great way to get to know what your families are doing to
nurture faith-and help them think through their answers, too. At
the end of the survey, tell families to discuss how the “census”
they just took from their home computer compares to the census Mary
and Joseph traveled for in Luke 2:1-5.Census Questions
Read aloud Luke 2:1-5 to see how Mary and Joseph had to travel for
the census. Then answer the following questions as a family.
1. How many people live in our house?
2. What’s the age of the youngest person in our house?
3. What’s the age of the oldest child in our house?
4. Why do we have Bibles in our house?
5. What’s the best thing about our family?
6. What do we like about our family praying together?
7. What’s our favorite thing about Christmas?
8. What’s each person’s favorite Christmas decoration?
9. When are the best times for our family to talk about God?
10. How does our family’s faith help us at school or work?
11. What’s something you’re thankful to God for today?
12 RANDOM OBJECTS
What You’ll Need For each family: a kit with a penny, paper clip,
used staple, pebble, cotton ball, crumpled paper, heart sticker,
thumbtack, aluminum foil, tissue, rubber band, string, and the ” 12 Days of Christmas”
12 Days of Christmas
In addition to the items provided, you’ll need an empty egg
carton, wrapping paper, tape, scissors, a permanent marker, a
flashlight, a pen, and a soup can.
1. Place each item provided in the kit in its own slot of your
empty egg carton. Cut a small circle of wrapping paper and tape it
over each hole as a cover.
2. Tell your child the egg carton is full of items that’ll help
your family get to know Jesus, your Savior. Beginning 12 days
before Christmas, have your child choose one of the egg carton
slots to open each day. Your child may remove the paper and
discover the item.
3. Read the Scripture from the handout and follow the directions
for the item your child chooses.