15 Great Ways to Minister to Single Parents

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Here are 11 ideas to get you started reaching out to single parents.

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  1. Ask single parents what their needs are (time away from the kids, finances) and help meet those needs.
  2. Form a committee with key single parents. Empower single parents to make the ministry what they need it to be-let them “own” the ministry.
  3. Pray for single parents — ask God to give them strength and encouragement.
  4. Encourage families and couples to welcome single parents into their homes.
  5. Start a support group.
  6. Don’t overburden singles. They often get too involved without getting their needs met.
  7. Have a parents night out. (Singles, like married people, need time for themselves.)
  8. Offer an active singles life separate from the Sunday school class. And when planning social events, don’t place the emphasis on couples.
  9. Provide baby-sitting because finances are tough for most single parents.
  10. Set up a fund where these parents (and other church members) can get a loan. Help with financial hardships.
  11. Consider organizing an old-fashioned co-op where single parents (and other church members) can exchange services without money. People with expertise in sewing, bookkeeping, mechanical work, and so on can participate.
  12. Also consider developing a “para-parenting” ministry — a big brother/big sister program for single parents’ children.
  13. Have a single parent tell his or her story during the worship service to help raise awareness.
  14. Remember these parents at holidays and birthdays — these days can be killers for single parents. Ask, “How does our church communicate what a family is?” Sometimes the message communicated is very subtle — “This is how a family should be.” This alienates these parents and gives them a burden of guilt.
  15. Be aware of how family finances and visitation schedules impact single parent families’ involvement in your church. Help them find ways to stay connected.
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Ray and Lynn Roberts started “Heart Healers” at Emmanuel Faith Community Church, in Escondido, California, to minister to single parents and their children. Heart Healers is a 12-week course for single parents that deals with issues such as fear, shame, guilt, and blame.

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In addition, their church has a worship service every Wednesday night specifically for single parents and their children. The pastor delivers a topical message on issues single parent families deal with.

Extra getaways for parents and children help families arrive at forgiveness and healing. Ray plans outdoor trips-white-water rafting, hiking, snow skiing, and camp outs.

“If you get parents and kids into that kind of environment, their problems fade away for a short time,” Ray says.

An annual trip to Ensenada, Mexico, gives single-parent families a chance to experience another culture and visit an orphanage. The group goes down with a twofold purpose: to help out at the orphanage and to love the kids they’re taking.

Ray says when children of divorce see the kids at the orphanage, they realize some kids don’t have anything. It makes them appreciate what they have and helps create a bond with other people who are going through hard times as well. It helps them realize that “I’m not the only one hurting.”

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  1. I love the idea I believe God is showing me there is a lack of support in this area w quality charities that house feed, educate, train ect. single moms unfortunately I don’t have money but I stand to inherit a lot one day and this is what I will do w it. U have a great idea send me your contact info to my email and maybe one day we will make a difference I hope God bless

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