9 Reasons to Fire a Volunteer—and How to Do It


Ready! Aim! You’re Fired! Here are 9 reasons you must fire a volunteer—and how to do it.


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After a month, it was apparent trouble was brewing in the fourth-grade class. The teachers and students weren’t getting along. Students complained and parents demanded that the teachers be replaced.

After the Christian education committee discussed the problem, a staff member talked with the teaching couple. The situation was potentially explosive. Firing the teachers could lead to hard feelings and the possible loss of a good church couple.

So how did it turn out? The teachers conceded they were mismatched for the class. They knew it and so did the kids. They agreed to look for another volunteer position in the church where their talents were better matched. Thankfully, everyone ended up happy. But it doesn’t always turn out that way.


The thought of having to fire a volunteer brings shivers to any leader. Without volunteers, Christian education ministries would die.

But quite honestly, there are situations when volunteers need to be fired. Terminating a volunteer in a loving, Christian way (and I like Paul’s comment in Galatians 5:26 about not becoming conceited) can usually mean the restoration of someone to a more meaningful volunteer position.

Let’s take a look at the top 9 reasons volunteers should be fired:

1. Mismatched talents Just like the teaching couple described earlier, when talents don’t jibe with the job, replace the volunteer. This isn’t as much of a firing as an adjustment of roles. You may find another area for this volunteer to serve.

Signs indicating a mismatched volunteer: volunteer complaints within a short time of beginning the job, concerns expressed by several people who are led by the volunteer, a low energy level from the volunteer and below-average performance.

2. Personal Crises When volunteers face unexpected crises in their families or personal lives, monitor those events and respond with caring. Some people will try to complete their tasks, not wanting to let the church down. If volunteers are stressed out from a crisis, they’ll welcome a release. Again, this isn’t as much of a firing as a possibly temporary reprieve from responsibilities during a difficult time.

Some crises that warrant a volunteer being terminated, at least for the short term: the death of a spouse or child, job loss with a prolonged out-of-work period, chronic depression and suicidal tendencies.

3. Poor performance Frequently, the church endures sloppy performance on the assumption: “We don’t want to offend anyone.” But children’s ministries should expect the best from volunteers, because children’s welfare is at stake.

Signs of poor performance: bragging about not needing to prepare for class, making verbal commitments and never following through and consistently having excuses for missing meetings or activities they’re responsible for.

4. Theological or philosophical differences Volunteers who have theological or philosophical differences with the church may “dump” a barrage of nonsense on unsuspecting targets. Teachers who throw away your church’s curriculum in order to teach “what I want” are setting a dangerous precedent. While it’s okay to allow teachers freedom in their classrooms, all curricular changes should have prior approval by you and possibly the Christian education board as well.

5. Negligence I once attended a weekend retreat with several church groups. Saturday night, one of the other church’s volunteers asked me to watch his group while he went out drinking with some friends. That guy should be fired.

There are many situations in the church where parents or others trust volunteers to be responsible. Any circumstance of volunteer negligence where a child’s life is endangered is grounds for termination.

6. Sexual misconduct The church used to be immune from having to deal with sexual misconduct on the part of volunteers. Not any more. Volunteers who fall prey to sexual temptations need to be terminated immediately. This can include anything from inappropriate touching to more serious sexual activity.

Don’t assume everyone has a pure motive for volunteering. Many churches now screen all volunteers who work with children or youth. Make sure your children aren’t endangered because of ineffective screening methods. Confront any suspicious volunteers.

7. Emotional Abuse Fire volunteers who are consistently mean to others. All of us get a big enough dose of emotional battering during the week without going to the church and dealing with an overbearing, cruel volunteer.

8. Antagonism Church antagonists constantly undermine anything positive in the church. They’re dangerous and conniving. Antagonists often use influential volunteer positions as a launching platform to criticize. These people are like a poison and should be removed immediately.

9. Gossip Volunteers are crucial to spreading the good news; they don’t need to be agents of bad news. When they are, the church needs to confront them and make a change. In Romans 12:18, Paul told the Christians to “live at peach with everyone” (NIV). Gossip never leads to peace in the church.


Terminating someone is never easy for me, but occasionally it has to be done. When I approach the volunteer prayerfully, the outcome is positive and redemptive. When I’m insensitive, there’s disaster and hard feelings.

Use these tips for terminating a volunteer in a positive way:

  • Don’t be judge and jury. When you suspect a volunteer needs to be terminated, get the volunteer’s perspective on the problem.
  • Inform your pastor or Christian education board about your concerns. Get their input before action is taken and decide how to proceed together.
  • Fire a volunteer in person. Never fire someone over the phone or through a letter unless it’s absolutely necessary.
  • Take along someone you trust to act as a supporter and impartial observer.
  • Respond to the children who lost the volunteer. Visit the children after the volunteer working with them is terminated. Be open, honest, and age-appropriate about the reasons and allow questions. This will eliminate gossip and a lot of hard feelings.
  • If appropriate, place the volunteer in another position. When a volunteer is fired, there’s a sense of failure. Having options available will show that you still value the person as a church member. Of course, this may not be appropriate in more serious situations.

Mike Gillespie is a Christian education director in Kansas.


Some volunteers will simply feel relieved when they’re terminated. Others may go through the following stages of grief, as outlined by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross:

  • Denial  “No way! How could they fire me? There must be some mistake!”
  • Anger “See if I ever do anything for that church again—if that’s the thanks I get!”
  • Bargaining “If I talk to the pastor, maybe I’ll get my position back.”
  • Depression  “I’m so embarrassed. Everyone must think I’m the worst Christian.”
  • Acceptance “Even though I wasn’t the greatest at that job, I bet there’s something I could do well in the church.”

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  1. Please keep in mind that sexual abuse is a very serious issue. If not handled correctly, churches can be sued with major monetary damages involved. ALL volunteers who work with minors should have a background check, and if anything is suspected, banned from the children’s area immediately.

    There are no guarantees, even with background checks, because a volunteer may have never been caught and prosecuted. Also, any time child abuse is suspected, it should be immediately reported to the authorities. Most states now deem clergy and other church employees as mandatory reporters if child abuse is ever suspected.

    The internet is full of tales of churches who got child abuse wrong, and have paid dearly for it in loss of members, reputation, and monetary damages.

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