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Model Behavior

Jennifer Hooks

You love kids--that's why you dedicate hours preparing for lessons and teaching them about God's love. You're committed to teaching...but you could do without the discipline challenges you face almost every time you enter your class. You're not alone--discipline is the biggest obstacle teachers face. Consider these statistics:

• 50% of classroom time is lost due to misbehavior and kids being off task.

• 80% of lost time is a result of kids talking without permission.

• Discipline is the #1 problem facing teachers in public schools today.

Children's ministers everywhere ask for effective discipline solutions. In fact, our 2007 Children's Ministry Magazine Live workshop, Come to Jesus, was focused on discipline--that's after hearing from you that it's the #1 problem you face when working with kids.

Children's Ministry Magazine went on a search for discipline solutions in the top discipline models available. We checked out what classroom management theorists say about discipline. We discovered there are tons of effective discipline models out there--many of which have been successfully adopted in public schools. And one reason these discipline models are effective is they do what discipline is meant to do--train kids to meet higher standards of behavior. These models have endured because they give teachers the tools they need to eliminate discipline issues.

The discipline models here focus on training kids to manage themselves while addressing the root of discipline challenges, rather than simply reacting to poor behavior choices. Read on to get the low-down on how to implement the best discipline techniques in your classroom today.

Assertive Discipline

Marlene and Lee Canter

This model is great for classrooms that lack an overall sense of order, teachers who need a "nudge" embracing their role as the classroom leader, and just about any type of discipline challenge, from minor disruptions to overall chaos.

How It Works:

The Assertive Discipline model is based on the concept that assertive teachers are more effective than wishy-washy, nonassertive, or hostile teachers. It holds that the teacher's "job" is to maintain firm--but loving and humane--control of the classroom. Teachers have the right to teach, and kids have the right to learn. Classroom distractions and issues that impede these rights essentially cripple the learning process. This model puts the responsibility of classroom control on the teacher, saying the teacher must insist on high behavior stand- ards as part of his or her responsibility to maintain kids' right to learn. Kids' rights under this model include the right to:

• have a teacher who helps them limit inappropriate behavior and provide positive support for appropriate behavior.

• choose their behavior path with full disclosure of the consequences that'll follow those choices.

The Assertive Discipline model is one of the most commonly used discipline models in public schools.

Apply It:

Borrow these pointers from the Assertive Discipline model for your classroom today.

• Attitude--Eliminate your negative expectations about kids' behavior. As the classroom leader, you can positively influence your kids' behavior--regardless of the problems they bring to class.

• Boundaries--Set limits and don't sway from them. Enforce limits with consistent consequences. Ensure that kids are fully aware of the consequences of poor behavior choices.

• Demeanor--Be assertive. Don't waffle or become hostile toward kids. Stay firm and in control of your emotions.

• Expectations--Be so specific in your expectations that any child from your class could instruct a newcomer on behavior expectations.

• Confrontation--Don't ignore inappropriate behavior. Stop it with a firm reminder of behavior expectations. Have a plan in place for how you'll deal with disruptions.

• Accountability--Correct children by name.

• Repetition--Use the "broken record" approach where you continue repeating your behavior expectation despite kids' excuses for not complying.

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