Here are 12 easy ways you can equip parents to lead their children spiritually at home, every day, right now.
Parents need simple, quick faith-builders that’ll make an impact on their children. You can give parents the tools and the time to foster spirituality in their children’s lives by passing on these 12 easy methods that put Jesus in the forefront.
1. Get the Word Out Any time you find a helpful article or idea, attach this note to a copy of it: “Thanks for sharing your child with us. We know the spiritual welfare of your child is very important to you. Attached are simple ideas you can use with your child at home. If we can help in any way, please let us know.” (You may need to contact the article’s publisher or author to get permission to reprint.)
2. Ask Me Create stickers kids can wear home that say, “Ask me what I did today at church!” Encourage parents to ask their kids about the lessons, activities, and crafts they did during class.
3. Mealtime Prayers Many parents race through fast-food windows to keep their kids’ bellies from grumbling on the go. Encourage parents to make a habit of thanking God for meals no matter where they’re eating-even in the car. Kids and parents can take turns saying a special prayer of thanks wherever they are.
4. Hello and Goodbye Provide parents with a craft kit to make a cross. Have them hang the cross near their front door where it’s clearly visible. As parents and children leave and enter their homes, they’ll be reminded to say a prayer of thanks for Jesus’ sacrifice.
5. The After-Church Report Encourage families to begin a new after-church tradition. On the way home, family members will take turns telling one thing they learned at church that day, one thing they enjoyed, and one thing they didn’t understand or want to learn more about. This new tradition will help solidify lessons learned, give parents the opportunity to answer their kids’ questions, and give families a chance to find out what everyone is experiencing at church. (Consider using a curriculum that keeps all ages learning the same Scripture and Bible point to really keep faith growing at home.)
6. “Fortunate” Cookie Recipe Give parents a simple, laminated recipe card for cookies they can make with their children. Attach a tube of icing to each card and include this note: “Each time you make these cookies with your family, use the icing to write one thing you’re all thankful for on your cookies. Pray together, thanking God for his care and generosity.”
7. Prayer Package Create a family devotion basket kids can take turns taking home each week. Collect or write enough family devotions for families to do one or two daily for a week. Alternate the devotions when every child has taken home the basket, and include seasonal and holiday devotions when possible.
8. Good News Design a send-home newsletter each week for kids to share with their families. Include a review of the lessons you’ve taught, extension activities for families, and resources for faith-building. Or consider the Parenting Christian Kids newsletter. This 100% customizable newsletter will help you—and parents—build faith at home. With incredible content for parents and a fun, modern design, this newsletter will positively impact the families in your ministry.
9. One Book, One Church Start a reading project in your children’s ministry. Have your volunteers and ministers select a book monthly for all the families in your ministry to read at the same time. Then bring the families together in discussion groups, online chat rooms, or special presentations by the book’s author. (See further details below.)
10. The Greatest Gift Give each family in your ministry a family-friendly Bible and a yearlong calendar plan to read different selections from their Bible. A great Bible that includes devotions, fun facts, and other activities is the Hands-On Bible (Group).
11. Make a Point Publish a weekly “Lesson Point” in your church bulletin that explains what kids are learning in your children’s ministry. Encourage parents to discuss the point with their kids.
12. Extend the Lesson Go high-tech and create an online page where parents can access “Lesson Extenders” to use during the week that help drive home your classroom lesson and give families opportunities to learn together.
ONE BOOK, ONE CHURCH
Monthly reading clubs such as a “One Book, One Church” program are a great way to involve your church families and spice up your children’s ministry. You may want to select several books so kids of all ages can participate. Here are tips to get you started.
• Volunteers’ Choice Volunteers vote on a selection of books each month, or the “volunteer of the month” gets to select the book.
• Kids’ Choice Each month, kids cast their vote on the book they want to read. You can alternate this with “Parent’s Choice,” “Sister’s Choice,” and “Brother’s Choice” months.
• Best Sellers Choose the book based on the best-sellers list. Bestsellers’ Lists:
• Classics Have people nominate their all-time favorite tome in one sentence. Then choose one of those books each month.
CHRISTIAN OR MAINSTREAM?
There are tons of wonderful Christian books for families-in fact, we’ve listed some of our current favorites. Our recommended books offer strong biblical lessons and wonderful writing. They also reinforce Christian beliefs. But keep in mind that many secular books also offer strong moral messages that can easily be incorporated into your lessons. You may be surprised by the way families make their own biblical connections to secular stories, so don’t shy away from choosing mainstream books-just carefully screen each book beforehand.
BUY THE BOOK
Publicize the book club throughout your congregation. Emphasize that it’s open to everyone, not just those with children. Bookworms are everywhere, and some of your seniors and singles may want to get involved as discussion-group leaders and organizers-publicize in your bulletin, newsletters, on posters, and from the pulpit.
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